Tuesday 4 November 2014

RIGHTS OF PARENTS (Huqooqul Walidain), Aala Hazrat Imam Ahmed Raza (RadiyallahuAnhu)




Aala Hazrat Imam Ahmed Raza
(RadiyallahuAnhu)


AL-HUQOOQUE
THE RIGHTS OF PARENTS





RIDDLE NO.: 1.
A son snatched away whole property disobeying his father and left nothing behind as his father’s own maintenance. Not only this, but he is insulting and infaming him. While the obedience of father is strictly ordered in the holy Quran sharif by Allahta‘la, The Almighty. In this situation, whether he infringed the order of Allah ta’la and he is a disbeliever of Allah ta’la order or not. And what is the order of shariet (The Islamic laws) for those who breach or deny the orders of the holy Quran? And what type of offender he is?

SOLUTION:

The aforesaid son is involved in “Fasique”,“Fajir” and “Kabira” sins and is liable to suffer an horrible anger of Allah ta’la, The Great. The disobedience of father is the disobedience of Allah ta’la and the displeasure of father is the displeasure of Allah ta’la. If a man pleases his parents, then they are his paradise (Jannat) and if displeases them, they are his hell (Jahannam) too. Unless he pleases his father, none of his Farzs, Niffals or any Righteous acts will be granted by Allah ta’la -at all. Except the calamities of the next world, the severe sufferings of this world will be imposed  upon  him during  his  actual  life  and  there  is  a danger that he may not be lucky enough to recite the holy Kalema” during his final moments (Allah may save us all).

Through    Hadith,    the    most    beloved    Prophet Mohammed (Sallallaho Alaihe Wasallam) Orders that:

The obedience of Allah ta’la rests in the obedience of father and the disobedience of Allah ta’la is the disobedience of father.” [Tibrani]

Through another Hadith, it is indicated by Prophet Mohammed (Sallallaho Alaihe Wasallam) that:

“The pleasure of Allah ta’la is in the pleasure of parents and the displeasure of Allah ta’la is of course in the displeasure of parents.” [Tirmizi, Ibne Habban, Hakim]

And in third Hadith it is said that:
“The  parents  are  your  paradise  and  hell.”  [Ibne  Maaja] Through  fourth  Hadith,  the  Prophet  (Sallallaho Alaihe Wasallam) divulges a secret that:


A father is the middle gate of all the gates of paradise. Now, if you like, you may disgain it or take care of it.” [Tirmizi, Ibne Maaja, Ibne Habban]


In the fifth Hadith, it is said by hira that:

“Three persons will not enter the paradise (i) One who disobeys parents (ii) “Dayyush” (i.e. A person who does not attempt thoroughly to prevent his wife from unveiling / moving without purdah is called “Dayyush “) and (iii) A female who behaves like a male (i .e . A female with male like gestures). [Nisai, Hakim]

The Prophet Mohammed (Sallallaho Alaihe Wasallam)    guides    us    through    sixth    Hadith    that: No Farzs and Niffals of three persons will be granted by Allah ta’la, The Almighty,

(i)   Who   shows   obligation   after   offering”   Sadqa   “to someone in trouble.

(ii) And who disbelieves virtues (good deeds) and vices (bad deeds) are from Allah (Taqdeer)

(iii)  Who  is  a  disobedient  of  parents  (Sunan  Ibne  Abi Aasim). And the Prophet (Sallallaho Alaihe Wasallam) warns us in the seventh Hadith that:

The punishment of all other sins may be left for the day of Qayamat (the final day) if He (Allah ta’la) wishes, but He (Allah ta’la, The Great) does punish those who are the disobedients of their parents in this world itself.
[Hakim, Isbahani, Tibrani] The eighth Hadith illuminates that:
“A young man was on the stage of Sakraat ( i.e, final moments of the life) who was being taught “Kalema sharif “But he was unable to recite the holy words of the
‘Kalema   sharif   “till   the   moments   that   the   Prophet (Sallallaho Alaihe Wasallam) reached there and told him to recite  Lailaha  Illallah  .But  he  expressed  his  inability  to recite it. Later on it came to notice that his mother was displeased  with  him.  Afterwards  when  she  had  been pleased, that young could recite the “Kalema sharif “.
[Imam Ahmed, Tibrani)

Now, with reference to the riddle mentioned above the son is an offender and his deeds (executions) are in against of the great orders of Allah ta’la, The Great. He can not be said or called as a disbeliever of the orders of Allah ta’la until he says that the obedience of a father is not essential according to Shariet or (may Allah save us) an insultation and disreputation of a father is JAEZ (allowable by  Islam).  Any  one  who  distinctly  keeps  such  type  of Aqida (belief) is no doubt a Munkar (disbeliever) of the great orders of Allah ta’la and here the order of apparent KUFRA” (Infidelity) is applicable to him.